Avoid Dating Exhaustion
Written by Rodney Petersen
Thursday, 10th December 2009
For some single people being single is tough to handle, being single can be hard work and it wears us out. Its possible for some to reach a point where the dates and dinners, time in the bars make you feel like you don't want to go on. There are just too many flaky people and bad experiences. At this point you may be suffering from dating fatigue but it isn't only you in that position. To avoid dating fatigue, decide on what you need, who you want to meet and then try to stick to it. Do you have just a few high quality dates each month with true potential partners or do you date every available person you meet. Of course you should know that the latter will bring on dating fatigue.
One problem that can leads to dating stress is when communication breaks down. What I mean is lying about personal issues, for example by telling the other person things that they want to hear. This is intended to win them over and it may in the short term, but eventually the truth must come out. Many time people do this as they don't feel happy about themselves. They want to be something other than their real self. They intend on impressing but in taking this approach, people exclude themselves from dating success. Why...? Because when they realize that you have been lying, then its all down hill from there.
Most of us make a mental list of the ideal person and when it doesn't work out frustration sets in. After we find that the people we date don't really meet our ideal perception of what we want, we begin to feel drained of the whole process. At times it's best to recharge our batteries before rejoining the dating world. Be prepared for this cycle to repeat itself over and over, time and time again. There are some, who are lucky in love and they will probably not be reading this, but most of us need to take a strategic approach. We are on a mission to find someone to love, so expect to get worn out, be prepared to feel disappointed and pace yourself. Try to enjoy the dating process; eating out going to parties can be a plus in itself. For your own sanity, focus on quality rather than quantity.
I think that the way we all should deal with dating fatigue is simple: take some time off, and then go do something completely different, begin a new sport or hobby and enjoy the important simple pleasures in life. This will be easier once you unplug and stop thinking about Mr.or Ms.Right. In doing so you may be happily surprised who you meet. Just remember, even though it's a numbers game, dating is supposed to be fun..If you want to read any more dating thoughts or advice then come visit us at... www.dating-relationship-tips.com
Good Luck!
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